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Top 10 Ways to Catch a Cheating Man
October 11th, 2008 by adminThere are many different signs of infidelity with men. Each man is willing to go to different steps to hide his affair, so how do you know the truth? Sometimes men can be really stupid when it comes to hiding an affair. Sometimes the man wants to get caught so that they can get out of the relationship they are in.
While there is no one single “smoking gun” way to know, other than catching him in the act, here are some ways to help find out the truth in your relationship.
- Set a trap. 99.9% of the time cheating men will cheat when their partner is out of town or when the cheater is traveling. Tell your partner you are leaving for the weekend and then wait and watch. If he doesn’t come home all night, he could be at another woman’s house or at a hotel. Otherwise, he may bring her to his or “your” house. Remember the old saying….”when the cat’s away, the mouse will play.” It’s very true.
- Monitor his cell phone. Note whether he always turns off his cell phone when he’s with you or if his returned calls to you are extremely delayed without verified reasons. If you have access to his cell phone bill, watch for repeated calls or calls of long duration and the times. Check his cell phone logs. Press the re-dial on the phone or *69. This is an effective way to find out who they have been calling.
- Place a fake profile on-line. Set your partner up by placing a fake profile on-line and see if he takes the bait.
- Get one of your girlfriends that he doesn’t know to hit on him with a recording device in her purse and listen to his response.
- Be aware of any close platonic relationships. Most friends will not approve of the cheater’s ways but will cover for them. Some friends will actually help the cheater by providing an alibi for the cheater. The cheater’s friend will assist the cheater out of loyalty stemming from a friendship.
- Monitor his computer usage. Note if he makes frequent visits to free e-mail accounts (i.e., hotmail, msn, yahoo, gmail, hushmail, etc…). If you suspect that your partner is involved in an online affair, install a keystroke logger on your computer which logs every key stroke. It is not legal to install a logger onto someone else’s computer, so make sure you own it. Make note of excessive Internet usage especially late at night or in chat rooms. Check his Internet web browser history (cache) for unusual websites.
- Make your bed. If you suspect your partner is bringing his affair to your home, make the bed a special way and make note if it’s not made identically to the way you left it when you return.
- Monitor your partner’s driving habits for a month. Watch for increase in gas receipts and monitor the car’s odometer to see if there are extra-unexplained miles on the car. Monitor the time they leave for work and the time they come home. By keeping a calendar and noting the times, this should help you establish a pattern. If your mate claims to be working late, check paycheck stubs to verify this overtime. Your partner explains a late return home as a result of having to drive out of town on business, but yet the mileage on the car indicates less than ten mile driven.
- Check all credit card statements, ATM withdrawals, receipts and check stubs for any unusual transactions. Make note of any strange dates and times. Check income tax returns revealing unexplained travel and business expense deductions.
- Place a GPS tracking device in the car. They are usually no larger than a pack of gum and will track anywhere his automobile goes but can be pricey. Make sure you research any legal ramifications before you decide to do this.
These are just some of the signs of infidelity and ways to catch a cheating man. If you suspect that your man is cheating on you, there are many options for you. Visit our resources page to learn more about how to catch a cheating spouse and other options.
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February 8th, 2009 9:32 am
well I think that my man is having an affair on his email. Everytime he opens his mail, he gets angry by me just being on his near. I saw a massage in his mail one time, and I sled of who it can be. But he didn’t respond on my answer. He was only laughing. After some days, he told me that mail was from his ex from Africa. Mmmh, how can a man having so many ex and only thought of sending only that one mails? OK! One day, I needed to do something for him on the Internet, by hIs mails.. I saw another mail from that same woman writting” this are my pics”. What can that mean? Please help me, thx!
February 19th, 2009 1:01 am
He has turned off both cell phones, so I can no longer track him. He paid for a woman manicure/pedicure near his job and he works longer than pay stub suggests. he is constantly lying. I want to catch him red handed and hand him his walking papers.